|
|
| |
The Laws of Attraction and the Modern Dating Scene
A useful, although reductive, theory on attraction comes from evolutionary psychology. It holds that we are drawn to others on the basis of our assessment of their reproductive fitness. We weigh up physical qualities (symmetry, health, youth, strength in men, child-bearing indicators in women), material possessions (wealth), social skills (status, charity, humour, confidence) and cultural factors (fashion, weight, skin tone, hair styles, body decoration). We have roughly standardized perceptions of 'attractive' individuals, though it can vary over history and in different parts of the world.
WINNER |
|
 |
Icebreaker cologne contains a mix of 8 human pheromones.
It has patented pheromone compounds that were formulated to
sexually excite women and create feelings of deep connection.
Top quality product. Three times more potent than other pheromone colognes.
Contains Oxytocin also known as "The Love Hormone". Manufacturer offers 30-day money back guarantee.
FREE BONUS: Crash Course in Dating & Seduction
Contains 8 human pheromones. Total of 15 mg.
|
|
User Poll - Based on 522 Votes | Own this product? Click Here to Vote |
| More Eye Contact from Women | 83% |
|
| Women Flirted More with Me | 76% |
|
| I Got More Dates | 61% |
|
| My Sex Life Improved | 62% |
|
|
|
|
Price $37.95
 |
522 Votes, User Ratings 
4.7 |
#2
Runner Up |
 |
Contains no fragrance. It is a proprietary mix of
4 human pheromones. Unscented version is used as an additive to your cologne.
Max Attraction can improve your love life and help with women's sexual hunger for you.
Contains 4 human pheromones. Total of 13 mg.
|
|
User Poll - Based on 291 Votes | Own this product? Click Here to Vote |
| More Eye Contact from Women | 82% |
|
| Women Flirted More with Me | 65% |
|
| I Got More Dates | 52% |
|
| My Sex Life Improved | 46% |
|
|
|
|
Price $89.95
|
291 Votes, User Ratings 
3.9 |
#3
Third Place |
 |
Fragranced pheromone spray that contains some human pheromones. Masculine
fragrance however smells little too strong and cheap. Made for creating sexual
attraction and chemistry. Responsive custommer support. Manufacturer is well rated
with the BBB.
|
|
User Poll - Based on 245 Votes | Own this product? Click Here to Vote |
| More Eye Contact from Women | 75% |
|
| Women Flirted More with Me | 55% |
|
| I Got More Dates | 62% |
|
| My Sex Life Improved | 30% |
|
|
|
|
Price $59.95
|
245 Votes, User Ratings
3.6 |
#4
Fourth Place |
 |
A good pheromone spray packaged in a very cheap looking bottle. Claims to boosts
your overall sexual confidence. The Marketing company that promotes it uses hard to believe, over the top sales pitch.
However they do offer money back guarantee.
|
|
User Poll - Based on 280 Votes | Own this product? Click Here to Vote |
| More Eye Contact from Women | 68% |
|
| Women Flirted More with Me | 53% |
|
| I Got More Dates | 55% |
|
| My Sex Life Improved | 36% |
|
|
|
|
Price $49.95
|
280 Votes, User Ratings
3.3 |
#5
Fifth Place |
 |
A314 pheromone formula generates various social effects. Many of these
effects are subtle by themselves, but when combined tohether they generate
an aura of masculinity, leadership, wealth and strong alpha male presence.
|
|
User Poll - Based on 266 Votes | Own this product? Click Here to Vote |
| More Eye Contact from Women | 87% |
|
| Women Flirted More with Me | 54% |
|
| I Got More Dates | 28% |
|
| My Sex Life Improved | 26% |
|
|
|
|
Price $69.00
|
266 Votes, User Ratings
3.0 |
We have close to 40 pheromone products registered in our database. Every month
we review rankings and publish top products with a total score 3.0 or higher. Published products must have 40 or more votes so that our results are statistically sound. Please
help us collectively find the most effective pheromone products by submitting your vote on the
bottom of this page.
Generally speaking, we select partners that are roughly similar to our own level of 'reproductive attractiveness' (measured in the wide sense). This means that it is not only the most 'attractive' individuals who manage to form partnerships - there is someone for everyone.
An excellent book that deals with attraction from an evolutionary perspective is 'The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature' by Geoffrey Miller. His hypothesis is that a lot of how we conduct our lives e.g. high status jobs, creative work, being charitable or popular for example, sends signals to attract potential partners.
Ideas about compatibility include 'opposites attract' and 'like-minded attract'. There seems to be clinical support for both positions. On the one hand we may be drawn to individuals who have characteristics we lack. They may reflect our shadow side - the elements that reside within us but which we refuse to acknowledge. They may also balance or complement our personalities. Some examples of differences include highly-driven v. relaxed, artistic v. scientific, sporty v. sedate and introverted v. extroverted. On the other hand, like-minded individuals may connect well because it widens the field of interaction, for example sports lovers can play and watch games together, and extroverts can socialize happily. What seems important in either of these positions is that the underlying core values are congruent. Ethical and social ideals tend to be matched in solid partnerships.
Various factors can be at play during the initial attraction. Sometimes it begins as physical impulse - pheromones doing their work - and sometimes it starts as an emotional connection first. Usually it involves an implicit assessment of the other's suitability as a potential mate (genetic donor) and/or a long-term partner (protector of self and of future offspring). This entails a complex interplay of observation (often matching them up to our ideal, or even setting them up as an ideal), reaction (via chemicals and body language) and interaction.
VOTE FOR YOUR FAVORITE PHEROMONE PRODUCT
An available person is likely to send out the right signals when they are self-contented. It is a cliché, but a relevant one - when we can accept and love ourselves, we are in a good position to be accepted and loved by another. Inner confidence makes itself visible to potential partners. It is more convincing than 'fake' confidence (though sometimes in imagining ourselves confident, we can become it). This is why many happily committed individuals can be so appealing to others.
There are more and more forums for finding love including internet, speed-dating, lonely-hearts columns and match-making services. There have been many success stories linked with these platforms and they are drawing a wide audience. They are effective in part because they exclude individuals who are not looking for romance. The drawbacks can be that we don't have time to see the individual in roles other than as a 'potential date'. Also, increasingly relationships begin in the virtual sphere (online, SMS texts) which can remove some of the depth of a real relationship including the pain of being rejected. For clients in therapy who are considering more traditional meeting grounds, we explore options such as taking up hobbies, playing sports, joining clubs or organizing friendly dinner parties (perhaps asking friends to bring a single friend). These activities are rewarding in their own right, and carry the bonus of forming friendships and partnerships.
|
|
|
|
| |
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
| |
Lean More and Choose The Best Pheromone for You
Guys, want to enhance your chances of having sex? Unless you've got Brad Pitt type looks and a bank balance to match, then attracting the opposite sex for most of us takes a little work.
Human pheromones are gaining popularity at an ever increasing rate but before you whip out the credit card and buy the first pheromone spray, perfume or oil you come across let me give you a few tips on what... 
People have long debated how much influence scent has on sexual attraction. I'm not talking about the newest hot scent that gets sprayed on you by attractive young women when you visit an upmarket department store, rather it's the virtually unnoticeable smells we all produce normally, human pheromones.
Every animal, including humans, have a unique aroma that they give off in order to attract...
After the long cold days of winter, spring sings her chipper song. As I write this, I have brightly coloured tulips to gaze at happily in my garden. Spring is a great time to start eating healthier, lighter food, wear bright colours, and get outdoors. It also happens to be a great time to fall in love. Perhaps scientists will one day reveal a specific chemical that flies around in the spring...
A sleeping Lover lays at the core of many timeless legends. A kiss, or magic potion is needed to awaken her. To grasp the eternal truths displayed so beautifully in these old texts, you need only to see it is not a story. It is instruction to you. It is your guide, your encouragement, your path to be a Hero.
Strip away the allusions to sensuality in these old stories. They are the stories of...
How do pheromones work?
Human body naturally produces pheromones every day. Individuals who give off higher than average amounts of pheromones usually have greater success with attracting members of the opposite sex, while individuals who don't produce a high level of pheromones attract fewer potential mates. Pheromones are odorless chemicals and they are detected through an organ inside the...
A useful, although reductive, theory on attraction comes from evolutionary psychology. It holds that we are drawn to others on the basis of our assessment of their reproductive fitness. We weigh up physical qualities (symmetry, health, youth, strength in men, child-bearing indicators in women), material possessions (wealth), social skills (status, charity, humour, confidence) and cultural factors...
Any time you interact with another person, whether in business or from an interpersonal standpoint, even the clerk at the department store, there is a relationship there. It may be totally casual because you will likely never see that person again, or it may be a relationship that you wish to continue, such as a first date with someone, or even the maintenance of the relationship that you have...
People feel sexually attracted to other people on account of a number of physical traits that could be identified, at the level of each individual, as pleasant and seductive. This means that physical appearance has the greatest influence on determining the type of partner we want, at least in the beginning of an intimate, erotic relationship. As a result, we are prompted into categorizing people...
|
|
|
| |
| |
|
|
| |
|
|
|
|
